Elizabeth Eternal

The feminine energy is emotional and we fucking love that about the feminine.

Or at least we should.

Let me explain. And if your looking for sort of the basics on the feminine energy, you can find that here – https://elizabetheternal.com/the-feminine-energy/ and – https://elizabetheternal.com/the-feminine-energy-part-two/

Part of the feminine energy, is the ability to see to the heart of things really quickly. The feminine is made to receive, to take things in and multiply it and give it back. We like to look at this only within the scope of child rearing. And while that is true, it does make it easier to raise a child when you can see straight to the heart of them, and understand what it is that they need to be able to overcome any obstacle, this applies to every area of life.

When a feminine falls in love, at least a healthy feminine that isn’t carrying around a bunch of baggage…. they fall in love with what is at the core of that person. The red flags we are always so ready to ignore? Yeah, that is because the energy sees it as the extra of life. Placing it on the same level of importance as what job they have or what car they drive or their favorite place to eat. It matters, but really not that much. Because it’s what is underneath that, what is true to the nature of a person, that matters the most.

So when that relationship ends, it is a grieving process. It is understanding that when that other person finally saw to the core of who we are, they finally waded through all the extra, they didn’t like what they saw. Or they never saw it at all, and we realized that our love for that person was far deeper then there love for us.

THIS IS EMOTIONAL. This is hard, and jarring, and makes us question our selves deeply. Remember, the feminine energy is emotional, and we love that about them!

The masculine is affected probably the same amount, but on a far less emotional side of it.

The masculine brings structure to the temperature. Because of this the way they approach pretty much everything is different. They see their family and the first thought is “I need to provide” Right? They think, “My family needs a good life so I need to make money.” and “They need my love and affection, so I am going to provide that” Its seeing the family from an external point of view, and diving in. Where as the feminine starts on the inside, and works its way out.

Does this make sense?

So they are less emotional, because they were just barley scratching the surface of knowing that person to there core. Once a masc falls in love with the true essence of the partner…. they cannot be swayed. Hence the masculine tendency towards obsession. But the heart break is more… not trusting themselves, than a deep grieving. They still grieve, but it’s on much different level.

The feminine sees someone getting hurt, and they automatically see to the heart of it, the core. “Oh my gosh, that feeling must be fucking horrible”

The masculine sees someone getting hurt and they see the threat, and how that needs to be eliminated “How could they possibly hurt someone like that”

See the difference there?

We need BOTH OF THESE energies to effectively help a situation. They are both so vital. And yet, the immediate response to the feminine energy is “Why are you being so emotional”

If I could add a gif in here of someone rolling their eyes, I so would. The blatant lack of respect for the feminine is so deeply ingrained in us, that we see what makes there energy so powerful, as being silly, and immature, and like a nuisance rather then being the strong and powerful thing it really is.

Name a masc that can hold that much emotion in there body and not fucking loose there shit.

I’ll wait.

We fucking love this about the feminine. When we give them the space to be emotional, and work through that, they learn how to harness it and turn it into compassion, and love, and deep satiation for life. But because it is so regularly belittled, and they have to stuff it down, they are not able to ever mature into the Devine feminine creature they were made to be. So fuck all the way off with the judgment. And just let them be who they fucking are and who they were created to be. This energy is just the beginning of a lot bigger of a picture.

Im just saying. The feminine energy is emotional. And we fucking love that about them. That’s my two cents.

I recently read this book and I really wish that I would have found it when I first started my journey. It is simple and gives really every day life things you can do. It may be a helpful tool! – https://a.co/d/0dPYC1q