Foothills.

Oh, Buddy my root Chakra is being put under the fucking fire right now! Can anyone relate?

If you are going to manifest, I PROMISE you, you will be faced with absolutely everything you’re afraid of. All of your old bad habits keeping you from getting what you want will come up with a vengeance. This happens EVERY SINGLE TIME without fail. Super promise. Why? Because all the coping mechanisms, fears, and defining misbeliefs that you have are going to be challenged as life begins to change. There are going to be moments that you have to choose. Face it, or go back. I’m in the middle of exactly that, and can I just tell you, I am so over it. I am grateful to do the work. I am doing the work willingly because I really don’t want to go back to all my old patterns. But it’s not exactly a dreamboat of a time. Fear, the block of the root Chakra, is the emotion that I struggle the most with. Maybe that is not even true, but it is the one I have the hardest time facing.

This is delicious in its own right though. Because this means the manifestation is well on its way. I will be swimming in all my desires here soon. Watch!

What I am doing about it.

So this is my advice to you, push through and LET IT HAPPEN. No need to go backward. Just lean into grounding, regulating, and letting the thing come to you. For me, this looks like finding my way out into nature as much as I can manage. I am working outside, hiking, sitting next to the river, bon fires with friends, kick backs in back yards. These things make me feel centered, grounded and calms my nervous system.

If I am like 100% with you, I am also working really hard on allowing myself to have emotions. Allowing myself the space to move through emotions rather than distracting myself from them. Doing things like dance, yoga, pilates, and meditation to spend time with them, and calm my nervous system at the same time. And most importantly, I am leaning heavily into my community. Getting out, and enjoying classes. people, good music, and of course, time with the fam. Not to mention asking for hugs. And a lot of them. Which for me is HARD!!! I am terrible about asking for that need to be met. But by golly, I am determined to do this!

Good morning lovlies!

Or good…. whatever part of the day you are hanging out in. Lol. It’s morning for me. Three cups of coffee in, more caffeine than I have had in a hot minute… It’s just so fucking good and comforting. Some days I need it. And let’s be so honest… my ADHD needs it. #GiveMeDopamineOrGiveMeDeath

Anyway, today I want to talk about something different. I have this series I am working on, but a simple project just got bigger and bigger and now I am working on siting sources and digging a little deeper… and well, it took on a life of its own. Before I knew it, way more time had passed than was necessary. Sorry about that! I am working on consistency with this.

It’s a challenge because it is truly a creative process for me, and creativity does not like having a schedule naturally. But I’m getting there. Bear with me. In the meantime, let’s get a little vulnerable for a second *Eye roll* Cool? Cool.

Getting what you need.

I am working on my Muludhara, or better known as the Root Chakra. This was my initial way of starting my healing journey. I am so thankful that this is how I did things because it allowed me to understand the way that I hold my energy in my body. It allowed me to go deep and pull the issues I saw popping up in my life at the root and deal with the initial trauma…. that was causing so many other traumas to pile on top. And then the rest just made sense, and guess what? Those things stopped popping up. It allows me ownership of my life, rather than existing in it as a victim. It allowed me to better understand myself and KNOW myself.

The Muludhara is the Foundation. It is the internal I AM. This is, in its healed and open form, the deep understanding that there is nothing to fear. I have needs, and it is okay for me to ask for those needs to be met. It is security and stability.

When it’s blocked, it is the inability to stabilize emotionally or physically, or both. It is cheating on your partner, or getting cheated on. Chronic Chaos. Getting things, then loosing things. Get a job loose a job. Paranoia about your future and bigger entities like the Government, IRS, or CPS. Etc.

Basically, It sucks. The initial wound? Fear. Fear that your needs will not be met.

Generally, this wound happens EARLY on in life. Even at birth. The Western way of having children involves having the very first memory we receive to be of lights that are way too bright, a multitude of people staring at you, that you have no connection to. It’s cold, and devoid of love and nourishment, even if you get that very soon afterward. The needs of that infant are co-regulation and safety. Something that they don’t generally get for quite a bit of time

It doesn’t help that the normal way of parenting is also devoid of co-regulation and understanding. We view children as being this thing that needs constant control, and when that control slips, they are met with domineering, authoritative action. We tend to forget that they are a whole ass person. A person who experiences very real, very big emotions and desires that they are learning how to navigate through our actions toward them. Because it is brand new. And they do not have the veil between the conscious and the subconscious that tells them how to respond to things.

The problem I am having

I want this to be a post where I tell you how to heal, and tell you how brilliant it is. Unfortunately for me, this is going to be just a really raw and vulnerable moment. Thumbs down. I hate this. Do not recommend it.

And the truth is, it is so brilliant. I could tell you how I did it the first time. Which was one hell of a story. It was my very first time doing any kind of Chakra work, and let’s just say… I was curled in a ball on my living floor, sobbing. Then it was more energy work, and yoga, and chanting, and affirmations and all the things. But it was a FUCKING trip dude.

However, I did a tarot pull about the root Chakra, to help me better understand what it was that I was targeting.

And it has to do with growing up poor. We went through a lot of different phases growing up. Times of abundance and times of rather extreme lack. Long story short. I have a rather deep-rooted fear of abundance. I didn’t even know that I had this.

But it has shown up for me over and over again. Again, I didn’t realize that was the problem. I just thought I had this desire to attain my abundance in a very specific kind of way. I was, and truthfully still am, entirely willing for that to take however long it’s going to take.

My mind was so narrowed around abundance. Financially, emotionally, relationally, etc. The thing is, I have even expanded so much in those areas! I have learned and grown so much. and yet, I just simply could not let myself truly have it. Something always came up that made me turn from whatever path I was on.

I didn’t go with the book deal because I didn’t have creative freedom over my own art. Missing out on a GOOD chunk of money and public recognition that would have allowed me new freedoms. I got out of insurance because it was sucking the life out of me despite the fact that I was making more money than I ever had, and there was an opportunity there to make it a whole-ass career. A career that would have given me the six-figure type of income in a very short period of time because I was honestly really good it. I let trauma cloud my ability to interact with someone that I could have actually really loved and had an epic relationship with, rather than just admitting at the moment that I was having a hard time. I was so ready to just let it go. And honestly have.

I am just looking at all those things in a new light now. And more.

Differing thoughts.

This is a hard wound for me to admit exists. Honestly, anything that happens with the Muludhara is hard for me because it requires a level of vulnerability that has always been a challenge for me. There is a part of my mind that still really feels as though those choices were good. Maybe not the relationship one. But the rest were good choices. At least it feels like that to me.

Usually, when I hit a wound, I can see where I went wrong, and I can just admit that those things were so good for me at the moment with what I was facing, but that I no longer needed it.

But they still feel like good choices. Is that true because they saved me from living a life I didn’t want? Or were they good choices because they kept me feeling safe and my Muludhara was blocked? My lack of clarity in this thing is more challenging than I can even express. I know that if I sit down and get into a really good meditative space about it, I can do the fucking thing. I will figure it out. But when I try to meditate, there is so much fear around it, and my mind goes in a HUNDRED different direction.

This is new you guys! And I am not a fucking fan. Healing has always been something that I am so open to and so open to having my mind radically changed. Admitting that I am wrong, and need to work on something is like a fucking cakewalk if I am honest. Personal growth is kind of my jam.

So why is this thing so hard? And why I am so fucking blocked about it? I can’t even get into neutral space, which if I am honest, I typically am really into. More than that in full transparency, I need it daily or I go a little crazy.

I am writing this, and just being honest about it, because my natural reaction is just to sort of let it go. It doesn’t need to be looked at anymore, it causes too much discord. And I am over it.

This is a sentiment that I have been in for a few weeks. This is too hard, and I am overwhelemed, so I am just going to bounce. Bali here I come. Sand, and sun, and working odd jobs to pay for a little apartment on the water. Living out my days in pure simplicity. Forget that I have family, friends, and partners. I LOVE my life. I love the people in my life. I love everything about my life. So why do I want to just bounce because there is a hardship that exists? Why do I want to run away? And is it all aligned? Is this why I felt such a strong desire to realign and work through my chakras again? Does it all come down to this deep-rooted fear that exists inside of me? That abundance is not safe.

Fuck, I need someone to slap me. Or kiss me. Or shake me. Or better yet, just tell me the answer. Because I am pretty sure that my head is going to explode.

Being in it.

I have found that sometimes, I just need to be in the mess for a minute to find my way out of the mess. And as much as I want to say that I have an easy answer for this, right now, I don’t.

So, the only answer I have is to allow myself the space to be in it. Understand that I am going to be uncomfortable for a minute, and get comfortable with that friction. Make friends with it. Understand it better than anyone else ever good. See its nuances, so that I can start to really look at it through a different lens, and allow the healing to happen. I get that. And there are some of you here, that are going to read this, and know exactly what it is that I need to do, and point out the discord, and you are probably right.

The problem that I have with that, and it is something I run into with other people all the time, is that you know it, and it being so obvious to you does not actually help me. It just makes me feel dumb for not knowing my own mind. And that creates a different problem altogether that also exasperates the existing problem.

Having someone else point out my issues can be such a beautiful thing, and I am thankful for those moments when things really do click.

But this is something I need to do for myself. Something I need to find the answers to. And do the work that it requires. There is no getting around it. No right answer. Just work. As much as I would love to run from that work, I know my mind well enough to understand that it is just hard, and I am learning to expand. And really, there is nothing I want more than that. So…. Here we go.

Thank you for reading my little break down. You are amazing.

Objectivly healing shame is tottally possible.

If shame is something you’re ready to battle. There are so many ways to battle it. There are objective ways that work for everyone. I truly believe that. But doing things this way was easier for me, allowed me to grow in more ways than one, and gave me the tools I needed to go deeper and understand better. The underlying idea is objective! So make it work for you!

May work for you. May not. We are all so different, and those differences are a good thing. My example was one of the easiest for me to be honest, there were a lot of situations that I had to grapple through, and that was a lot harder. But trust me when I say it works for EVERYTHING. We are healing shame objectively. It won’t be easy, but it is an easy process.

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I had so much shame around the fact that I smoked weed.

But why did I have shame about that?

Its a natural plant. One that I still indulge in fairly regularly. Not like I did before. I am not looking to get fucked up. I just want to be able to function when I am in pain, and sleep well.

There was so much shame around Weed, that when I said to myself “This could help me with pain, and could make it easier for me to sleep. This could help me avoid narcotics and muscle relaxers.” Which by the way, I am really good at becoming dependent on…. It still took me two more years of suffering in silence and forcing myself to do things I shouldn’t have in order to avoid smoking a little bit of weed.

It got to the point that even when I did ‘give in’ and used it, I would have insane paranoia. Now I use that word lightly here. Because that is the technical term for it. But if felt more like anxiety. I would be worried about whether or not I was doing the right thing. What if someone needs me? Or what if someone calls me, and I feel like I have to answer, and then they will know that I smoked because I will be more relaxed than I usually am and then they will think that I am not doing well and I will have to explain my choice… and I really do not want to do that.

Shame. So much shame for simply doing something that was genuinely helping me. But let me make something so clear, even if I just wanted to be a little stoned because it sounded nice, there still shouldn’t be shame. But I digress. We are talking about healing Shame objectively.

Get on track Elizabeth!

So the the thing that was helping me, was not even an enjoyable thing, and I got sucked back into the same shame cycle.

But I could not tell anyone that was what was happening. Hell no! I am not that weak. I don’t need it damn it! Just be a little stronger next time, make sure you smoke a little less, and put more parameters around something that should just be a thing that I used responsibly because I am allowed to do things, simply because they are pleasurable.

I traced it way back. Gained a bit of polarity over the situation. I asked myself a few questions.

The Questions. Bum bum buuummmm

-What is the objective truth about this situation.

Or What is the objective truth about weed?

My answer – It’s morally neutral. This is a plant, that is used in a lot of ways and has been used in medicine for thousands of years by many different cultures. The morality of it comes in by the way it is used, and the way it affects your life and loved ones. It can be used as a crutch. It can be used to escape. You can get yourself into trouble with it. But it is not just that. There is a positive side. The morality lives in the responsibility of the person partaking.

-I still feel shame. Why? When did I first feel this way.

Or, I am experiencing shame surrounding using this tool. Why? When did I first feel this way about Weed? Do I view it as a drug the same as meth or Coke? Is this really just not a good choice for me for some reason, and if so, what is that reason? (Yes I know that’s a lot of questions all at once. I’ve been doing this hot second. the meditation on this sort of thing is easier now. Start simple.)

My answer – I traced it back to a specific instance when I was in the church. And a man who had been smoking for a few years confessed his ‘sin’ to the church. He was ridiculed for the wrong he had done, shamed, and belittled by a room full of people. They kept saying his actions were “Selfish” And that the use of it “Proved his distance from God”. In the same event, they praised him relentlessly for stepping away from it.

Looking back… this man had four kids, a full-time job, and many hobbies outside of his home. He invested in his children and would take one of them on some sort of outing solo every week so that he could have one-on-one time with each of them. Was seriously involved with his family. Was excelling in his position at work, and at the end of the day would relax with a joint, this felt like a serious overreaction. But I digress.

This didn’t feel like the root of it though. Just another branch of a deeper issue, so I dived deeper.

LOOOOng story short, I had associated needing help calming down, with being weak. Anything that was a crutch, a coping skill, or even needing a hug after a long day, was shameful and proved I was not a strong being. This was confirmed in my young adulthood by seeing a man who was using it as a tool, be ridiculed and shamed for needing help relaxing.

-Is that objectivly true?

My answer- No I didn’t deserve it when I was a child. He didn’t deserve it as an adult.

So now its time to talk about it.

It was at this point that yes, talking about the shame, felt really wrong, and I didn’t want to talk about it still, but It made it possible for me to do the thing. To just say it. Weed wasn’t the issue. Feeling like it was shameful for me to not have it one hundred percent together, one hundred percent of the time, was the cause. My not being in my feminine energy, and allowing myself to be soft, vulnerable, and beautiful for exactly what I am, was the cause.

What is so much more amazing, is that when I did, I realized how many people I knew also needed to talk about it. How, when I released my shame, I was helping other people do the same thing. It allowed for deeper connection with others, and for deeper truth and honesty to enter my relationships, platonic or otherwise. I was getting the mushy ooey gooey curse all over everything anymore.

And you know what else? I got to take a nap! I was able to have pain days, and still function and do the things I love, without wanting to to cry anymore. I was a little more free. I am a little more free.

So..

I am so going to drop some yummy comfortable things down below, that I now indulge in fucking shame-free. Things that I would have said are over indulgent and I don’t need them because that is for weak women. But also some tools I think could be helpful.

https://amzn.to/3VYJvYn – Heating pad

https://amzn.to/3zkJi92 -Seriously so good.

https://amzn.to/3RK5KP1 – Fuckless book. Delicous read

https://amzn.to/3VFBTbV – Pain killers.

https://amzn.to/3ziX4c7 – Law of attraction may as well be a classic at this point. It will help.

Shame is a curse, and the rule of the curse is you can’t talk about it.

I heard this line from a woman named Mami Onami. I have honestly learned, healed, and grown so much from her, go check her out. https://www.mamionami.com/safehouse I’ve taken a few of her courses as well when they were doing a monthly subscription. And… well… go take them.

This particular line has been running through my head on repeat. Shame is a POWERFUL thing that we are all carrying on some level. It’s a massive Charka block. For me, shame was and is something I struggle with, because it was weaponized a lot through my formative years, and heavily reinforced through my young adulthood. Of course, in typical human fashion, I was amazing at self-perpetuating it through the rest of my life. At least until the last few years.

When it was explained to me like that, something just clicked. It snapped into place for me, in a way I can’t explain. Shame is a curse. It infects everything. Dripping its oozy gross self all over every relationship, every quiet moment, and every behavior. Once I saw it like this, noticing the gross invader became easy. I could see that Shame was a curse plain and simple.

That does not mean that dealing with it is easy. Because it is one thing to know there is a curse, its another to actually do something about the curse.

And the funny thing is, the rule of the curse, is you can’t talk about it. Shame is really good at staying inside. Because it wouldn’t be a problem if you didn’t have a problem talking about it. This proved to be true for me. Talking about it, felt like there was a little gremlin sitting in my chest, refusing to let me breathe and stomping around my insides until I felt like a pulverized piece of meat. If that doesn’t sound dramatic I don’t know what it is.

But its the truth.

The big giant emotions around this could be exasperated by the fact that I am an Aries. And you know us aries, always worried about the way we are perceived.

Dealing with the Curse.

Dealing with this block or the curse of shame, has made me a far nicer person though. Because for me, I had to get to the bottom of it. I couldn’t just talk about the things I was ashamed of, there was no amount of trying to force myself to do it that was going to work. I had to understand why I felt that way, and I had this desire to prove that it was all just so bad for me to ever talk about and that I was right to hold it in.

I even had the thought that I could be the one person who could hold things in, and carry the shame, but also release the block. The pride in me was just too fucking much. I cringe at myself a little now.

Getting to the bottom of things, forced me to look at myself and admit that something was wrong in the first place! Admitting that there were parts of me, whole ass parts of my personality, of my life, of my past, and coping skills, that I pretty much liked to pretend didn’t exist. To accept them as a part of myself.

To accept them as a part of myself meant that I had to admit I was being judgmental about other people who were struggling with the same thing. Remember, that everything you judge you’re secretly jealous of. Which made me look at people and the human experience very differently.

People with addictions are hurting. People who don’t get their shit together, are getting exactly what they need from life. People still hanging out in religion, are not prepared to leave yet, they may never. And they are getting exactly what they need.

Go check out this page if you want to schedule one-on-one time to go over this more in a way that is personal to you. Or if you just want a safe place to talk about it. https://elizabetheternal.com/creating-the-feminine-energy/

So yeah.

Theere is just to much I wanna talk about on this subject. So come back for part two.

Also, for all my lovlie feminine energies out there. You do not need these things to heal, you really don’t. But if you are going to embark on something like this, please protect and nurture the feminine energy through this. It’s easy to dip too far into the masculine when dealing with structural energies. I’m going into that in the next post.

Do it like a women damn it!

So these are a few things that gave me comfort and reminded me to go slow. You do what you need to do.

https://amzn.to/3VWAdvI -Cozy blanket.

https://amzn.to/3VDxiXE -Warming things.

https://amzn.to/4evL2w6 – Crystals

Did you know that fear is not something that we were supposed to feel? Fear and fear-based emotions such as jealousy, anger, contempt, etc… were never supposed to be something we as humans were made to experience. Our brains quite literally do not have the inferstructer for those emotions.

Lets start with the basics, shall we?

Think about the things that are innate to us as humans. When we are born, our little tiny baby brains already know how to do a few things. Which is cool if you ask me. This includes our ability to breathe, find food, form strong connections, love, and the ability to evolve. There is an argument to be made for experiencing pleasure. However, that is widely debated among professionals…. I would like to believe we do, but I don’t have anything to back that up with so take it as you will. We don’t need to learn how to do these things though, because they are necessary to our survival. We find this and readily accept this concept in the animal kingdom all the time.

No one bats an eye when an elephant or a horse is born, and are up walking within the first twelve hours. Why? Because it is necessary for their survival. We don’t question it. We don’t ask why or try to make them different than what they are, because if we want the species as a whole to continue, we know that they will need to have the ability to walk.

Those things that are innate to us, are necessary to our survival. We NEED them. What we do not have the ability to do, is experience fear. Our brains do not know what to do with it. And therefore, fear is not a brain thing, it is a nervous system thing. The fact that we don’t know what to do with fear is why we form such strong aversions to it. This is where trauma that lingers lives. We create a story and a coping mechanism that keeps us from experiencing that emotion again. Then it slips into the subconscious and we get to live with it until it’s dealt with.

Why is this important to understand.

First of all, it is an important concept to understand so that we are propelled forward to evolve. As I stated in this https://elizabetheternal.com/the-action-of-evolving/ blog. Evolving and learning are necessary components to the growth of our species.

But today, I want to talk about fear. Fear is a necessary part of the human experience.

I said what I said. I will pause for dramatic effect.

*Insert lame elevator music here.*

Contradictory I know.

But it is so fucking true!

How do we evolve if we do not experience some form of resistance? How do we appreciate life, and have deep pleasure, if we dont know what it feels like to have anything else? How do we overcome and become the people we were meant to be if we first do not have fear?

I believe that the fact we do not possess the ability to hold fear in ourselves without first creating the infrastructure for it is the whole point! I know it goes against like everything the spiritual community says on a regular bases, but I fucking love fear, and even have a soft spot for fear-based emotions. Because this means personal growth!!! Its a good thing.

I mean… it does not feel like a good thing at the moment admittedly, however, it is indeed good.

We need life experience. The good, and the bad, the painful, the scary, the weird, and everything in between because it allows us the ability to grow and evolve and experience pleasure, and satiation at greater heights than we would have ever experienced without it. It is my personal belief that this is why we have not evolved further, to know how to accommodate fear innatly. At this point, we really should have. The level of evolution we have experienced as a species is INSANE! Fear is something that most people experience literally from the moment they are born. So, naturally, that should evolve. But it hasn’t. I think the resistance we experience with these emotions, is just as important and necessary to our survival as what IS innate to us.

If we are spiritual beings having a physical experience. Then there are the things that those spiritual beings signed up for. It is all good in the grand scheme of things. And we love it.

It’s tough now. but it is apart of the process. Apart of the beauty of life.

I live in the freedom consistently, that life is school, and every time these emotions come up, it is an opportunity for personal groeth and to reach new heights of pleasure and satiation.

But hey, I am just a women trying to make it, so what the fuck do I know?

This is always such a controversial subject.

Being connected to source typically refers to feeling a deep sense of alignment, peace, and unity with the universal energy or higher power that many people believe governs the universe. This connection can bring a sense of clarity, purpose, and inner peace, and can help individuals feel more grounded, inspired, and supported in their daily lives. It often involves practices such as meditation, prayer, mindfulness, and self-reflection to cultivate this connection and maintain a sense of spiritual well-being.

What I would like to bring attention to, is what this means in actual practice. It is easy to put a lot of big words around this concept and swamp people in spiritual jargon because the concept really is so all encompassing.

It is my opinion, that being connected to source means being entirely and completely honest with yourself as well as the people around you, and living in that truth emphatically and fully, without any kind of remorse. So that you are capable of achieving flow.

Because if you are being honest with yourself, what is there to be remorseful about? We are all different and we want different things., and our minds are geared towards achieving different things. Not everyone was made to be a parent. Though plenty believe this is what they are supposed to do. Get married, and have there two point five children and have a successful business. This is what they believe they have to do, so they do it. But this also leaves families feeling unwanted, unloved, and uncherished. Causing deep emotional trauma that is very difficult to come back from .

Some who argue that these people just need to take responsibility for their actions and figure it out. And I could not agree more. The problem is, this does not align with there energy, and therefore does not align with source, and it subsequently incredibly difficult to achieve. IT IS ACHIEVABLE. I am not saying it is not. Make that who you are. Manifest it into your life., Be a fucking badass.

The reality is, that is really fucking hard.

There are not a lot of people who can do what I do. I recognize that, because it is not in alignment with who they are. They cannot be something they are not. It is not in alignment with them, to hold multiple jobs, love and care for their family with fervor and reverence and hold bonds that they form near and dear to their heart. But these are things that right now, are who I am to my core. I love to work. I love to take care of my family. It gives me a deep sense of love and peace to do so. I love forming strong bonds, and falling in love and exploring that love within in its fullest extent. I hold all of these things near and dear to me, and am able to achieve them with a level of ease once I find my rhythm.

Why?

Because when I am in this state, I am connected to source. I am living to the fullest extent of my being without care. I am fully myself. I am being honest with myself and the people around me about what I am capable of and what I am not capable of.

Being fully honest with yourself means being willing to confront and acknowledge your true thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and actions without denial, avoidance, or self-deception. It involves taking a hard look at your own behaviors, patterns, motivations, and desires, and being open and truthful about your strengths, weaknesses, fears, and vulnerabilities.

Being fully honest with yourself also means being willing to accept and take responsibility for your mistakes, shortcomings, and areas for growth, and actively working towards self-improvement and personal development. It requires a high level of self-awareness, self-reflection, and self-acceptance, as well as a commitment to living authentically and in alignment with your values and principles.

So, in short, it means to stop doing things simply because that is the way that it is supposed to be. It means living free and full and creating boundaries around the things that are not true to you. If you were not meant to be in a long term relationship, just fucking don’t! It is going to hurt you and it is going to hurt them.

You were not meant to have kids? Fucking don’t! We do not need anymore broken people out here, and that is exactly what you will do. Not meant to run your own business? Then don’t! You will work every single day of your life and hate every single moment of It. It will never be satiating. It will never be fulfilling, you will never genuinely enjoy your life.

Why?

Because it is impossible to connect to source, if you are operating in an energy that was not made for you.

This also means…. that everyone is so different. It is important to understand that everyone is different and needs different things because it promotes empathy, understanding, and respect for others. Recognizing and accepting individual differences helps us to appreciate the unique perspectives, experiences, and needs of those around us. This understanding can lead to more meaningful and fulfilling relationships, effective communication, and a more inclusive and harmonious society. By acknowledging and valuing diversity in all its forms, we can create a more compassionate and equitable world for everyone.

WE NEED PEOPLE WHO ARE DIFFERENT FROM US. If you only surround yourself with people who think like you, and behave you like you, and connect to source in the same way you do, you will forever be stuck, and will never have the ability to grow in certain ways. It is impossible to grow without resistance. And learning to exist in a world with people who are different, and being able to respect those difference while maintaining your own truth is a hard and yet vital skill that everyone should be able to attain.

That’s my two cents anyway.

But what do I know? I am just a women trying to make it.