The inner child is what we are all focused on usually. Truly, I get it. Those first six-seven years of life really did a number on a lot of us, and it is important to go back and let that part of you heal and learn and grow. Love it. Wanna go more in depth about it in another post and maybe even deeper in a podcast. But what I don’t hear people talking about is the ability to take care of the ethereal being that lives inside of you.
We all have it!
And its fucking vital.
What do I mean
I say that, and most people really just have no clue what I am talking about. That makes sense to me too. But for a moment, I want you to think about your soul. Think about the fact that this soul inside of you was at one point living in a very different realm. Had the option to not experience the hurt and the heart break and all the messy things that we deal with on a very regular basis. No hurt, no pain… a very simple and free existence with all the understanding.
So why choose to come here? At this time, in this plane of existence. Knowing that they would have to endure the traumas and the hurt and the pain of this life? I mean… to learn the lessons of course. But we usually stop there. Life is school. I do think it’s important to look at life that way. But that is not all there is.
All these emotions and experiences, they came for that too. We are here to experience. And if you are intentional, and willing to heal the hurt parts of you, most of those experiences can be so fucking good! That inner ethereal being is CRAVING pleasure and love and excitement. Craving the things in life, it came here to experience.
For some of us, like myself… That is love and travel and parties and meeting new people and having this big, exciting life. For others that is love, and softness, and simple pleasures. And pretty much everything in between.
But we get so hung up on the other part, the making money, and taking care of what needs taken care of, that we forget to enjoy the ride.
So what does that look like?
It looks different for everyone. But I always recommend starting small. Little rituals throughout the day to help you remember to slow down and find the things that bring you pleasure and joy.
For me… its.
Sex. Fuck do I love the sexual experience. Probably more than most, and certainly more the most women at this point in time. Though, I think as women start to unlock their pleasure that really wont be as much of a thing, but I digress. I love that, in a GOOD sexual experience, I feel alive, and my entire body catches fire in the most delicious kind of way. I love that my pussy throbs and my brain clears, and I can lose myself in the experience. It can almost be this portal to another planet entirely and I happen to love being on that planet.
Luxury. Look. I know I am an indulgent bitch sometimes. But do you know how often I turn off every light in my house, and shower by candlelight? It’s a lot. I am careful that every product I use on my body, I LOVE. And smells amazing and makes me feel good. I take my time to care for myself, and pay attention to each of me senses, and I absolutely oil myself up and massage as much of myself as possible. I take my time. I make sure my bed is comfortable, and I play music that makes me feel something. Turning every bit of self-care into an experience.
Road trips and travel. There is nothing, and do mean nothing, like a good road trip. The windows are down and good music playing. The joking and the laughter. Maybe a really good book playing. Seeing new things and taking lots of pictures. Taking stops in secluded areas to have some fun in the back seat. Finding good food and taking naps in the sun. Fuck do I love a good road trip. Nothing makes me come alive and be fully in the moment than going on a little adventure. No matter how short or long.
Final thoughts
No matter what it may look like for you, life is for the living. Life is for pleasure and fun and experiences. And no, not everything is going to be that way. But you have the power to make more of your life something delicious and yummy.
think at this point everyone and there fucking mom has heard about taking care of your inner child. Today I want to talk about taking care of your inner ethereal. It makes so much sense to me that the Taking care of your inner child
Podcast to go more in depth about this, coming soon.
