Elizabeth Eternal

It’s 2025 baby!

Y’all, here we are, and I could not be more thankful for 2024. It was hard and transitional, and so much changed; it’s insane, but here we are. No matter where you are starting from, this year can be an amazing one.

The thing is, I am starting this year in a dark place. I am always going to be really straight up with you, and right now, my life is a little crazy, and I am getting it from all sides. When I tell you that my showers have become like an hour long, I mean it! Nothing quite like the hot water to wash away all the nonsense.

That’s reality though, isn’t it? Nothing seems easy when you are on the cusp of something amazing. It’s usually pretty shit if I am honest. Right now is no different for me at all, I am in the thick of it. And so many others are to. If you are, I am standing here with you baby, let’s get through this. If you’re not, I am overjoyed by your fortune, and pray it continues.

No matter where you are starting, or what is going on in your life, this year, in 2025, we are achieving. This is the year for us to get the things we have been striving for and wanting and working so hard for. This is the year that the tables turn. I can feel it in my jellys.

What to expect

This part of the blog is very much about setting up the tone of how I want to move forward, and the kind of things that you can expect from me this year. I don’t love making blogs like this. It feels like it holds very little value for you as the reader. But here’s the deal, I want to bring you into the know a little bit. And hold myself accountable for the things I say I am going to do. ADHD at its finest – If I don’t make a big deal of it, then I am going to forget. It’s not even that I give up on those things, my mind just gets lost in all the other stuff, and slowly but surely, those things become less and less important, and I forget. It’s ridiculous. But I always say, the more you know yourself, the more you know yourself. And this is no exception.

I am making a few commitments to myself this year.

1. No casual relationships. This one is a bitch for me. There is nothing wrong with relationships that are simple in nature, and that you just simply exist in without the pressure of going long-term, or building a life together. These relationships have been some of the most beautiful, and rich, and genuinely helpful and life-giving to me. But this year is all about focus and I am building the life I want. This means, finding my forever people. And I can’t do that if all my time is spent with casual.
2. One business, or personal development book, for every fun book. Look, I am a reader. I closed out 2024 having read 57 books. Only four of them were for business or personal development. Could you imagine if I had read 25 books, genuinely applied the material, and let it grow me? Fuck, dude. I want that level of growth in 2025. Please and thank you.
3. Letting myself be intuitively led. Listen. I am a creative being, and my intuition is generally fucking on point. I’ve learned to trust it emphatically unless it directly applies to me. Why? Because I am a rebellious bitch sometimes, and the idea of acting or not acting on something that makes so much sense to me, just because I get a little turn in my stomach, or I have a thought is actually fucking wild. But as I said, my intuition is very rarely wrong, and while I have allowed myself the freedom of listening in a lot of areas, I want to open myself up a little more.
4. Grow my fucking blog! I have been so satisfied with the little audience that I have built. It’s not huge, but it’s full of people that I have come to just simply adore. Yall are the fucking shit. Keep those private messages coming baby, I want them (Although you guys, why is the comment section so fucking bare? Work with me here) But, I want to grow, and I want this to be more of a priority for me. Writing is my happy place, and if I can have a stream of income doing this, then I would like that to become my reality. So our little fam here is going to be growing. Yes, and thank you!
5. Then I have a few for the buisness I am currently in the process of purchasing. And some micro habits I am working on.

How to figure out what your goals are.

I really wish that five years ago someone would have made this clear to me, and taught me how to create goals. I find it so frustrating that everyone is so quick to say that you need to make them, and stick to them, but what does that actually look like? I had to figure it out on my own. I am sure there are a million ways to this, and the way that I do it is not right for everyone but, I can still share, and maybe itll resonate with some of you.

1. Meditate.

Take some time, and get quiet, clear your mind. Now I don’t mean to sit like Buddha and hum. That’s not the kind of meditation I am talking about. This is a powerful tool for certain things. But with this, well, there is no way that I would be focused on what I want in the future. This would go spiritual fast. No. Instead, find something that you can do to clear your mind, and let it wonder about the future, and what you would like your life to look like.

Get detailed about this. What does that version of you do in the morning? What do they do throughout the day, what do those habits look like? What job, or lack thereof, do they have? What are the simple pleasures they enjoy? What kind of clothes do you wear? All of it.

If you can’t answer this… STOP. Your goal is to learn yourself. I don’t make the rules, that is just how it is. I’ll put that process in another blog. But seriously, your manifestations, your goals, the relationships you want, all of it, are not going to work, because you’re aligning with something that isn’t for you. Because you don’t even know you!

2. Write that shit down

Write it down, print pictures, do whatever you have to do to lock in the energy, know it, and make friends with it. That is the key. Because this is the why. This energy, this love, and abundance, and joy, the dream, that is the why. If you can attach genuine emotion to it, you are more likely to be able to manifest that reality.

3) Compare.

The ouch generally comes in here, and it gets really overwhelming. Whether it is just a few things you need to change or a whole heaping lot. It’s important to know. Because this list becomes the blueprint to reach the goal. Find so much love for yourself in these moments. Especially if its a lot. This is not a list of failures. It is just the truth, with no moral attachments. It is hard to rewire our brains at this moment. It really is, and i totally get it. But even if you have to stop every couple of minutes, and do the energy work, say the affirmations – I don’t even care what you do, to change it; but deal with the emotion, and turn it over to the new thought process. Something we are leaving in 2024? Being an asshole to yourself. Cool? Cool.

Something important to understand is that no matter what the goal is, whether it’s business, relationships, body composition, or travel – all of it, starts with you. The thought processes, habits, and energies that you allow. You can’t know what it going to bring in the goal, the dream, the manifestation, without first knowing what you allowing into your energetic field. The list is important.

4. Recap

At this point you not only have your goals, that you can pull from the meditative time. Whatever that life was you just pictured, figure out key points, and get those set in stone. That’s the goal. but you have a list of every single habit you need to start taking on. Every thought process needs to change. And these can be your baby steps.

It really is that simple.